Leighton is out of town for the weekend, so it’s been just me and the boys. It’s been fairly relaxing and laid back so far, though we managed to run some errands this afternoon. It’s also been refreshing in a way. For 3 1/2 years, it was just ‘mom and the boys’. Though I didn’t really see it at the time, I think we developed a bond that wouldn’t normally develop if there were always a mom and a dad around. Maybe it’s just me, but I feel closer to my boys because I was literally all they had when it comes to 24/7 parents for that ‘season’. I love David and Matthew very deeply and I think I need ‘my’ time with them once in a while.
On another note, being married is great! I love it! Leighton is awesome! He truly is my best friend. And he’s definitely tapped into my love language: doing nice things for me – like making supper, or putting the kids to bed, or helping unload groceries, or getting the groceries… I am so appreciative of the things he does. I think if there are moms who are ever feeling like complaining about their marriages: try doing it all by yourself for an extended period of time. I think it teaches you to appreciate a lot of things we can take for granted.
Its so nice to hear that you’re enjoying married life. And thanks for putting me in my place, I do complain alot about things in my marriage and what you said about trying it out on your own, made me think and feel blessed that I don’t have to do it on my own. We shouldn’t take our marriages or husbands for granted. I really needed to have that pointed out to me.
May God bless you as you spend many, many years together. Take care
I’m so happy for you!
I know what you mean, about how you need that special time without the hubby around. You are so right about us wives complaining, being little Sarah’s in a tent. I’m so glad that Debbie Mitchell put that into perspective. I’m so thankful for my hubby and never want to be so arrogant to think that I deserve what he brings to my life. Love ya sis, miss ya! When can we hook up?
Tanya and Nin,
I’m glad you’re appreciating your marriages. As it says, “in everything, give thanks” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Blessings to you both!
Nin,
Call me or email me with dates and times that we can get together.